Friday, December 6, 2019

Nov 2019 - Home in Sacramento and SLC

We have been "home" for a month now and it's been great to be back with family and friends.  We stayed with Heather's father Ted while we were in Sacramento and enjoyed playing frequent games of dominos. 

Merritt saw an orthopedic surgeon and received a cortisone shot which helped his frozen shoulder and has been doing his daily physical therapy to get back his range of motion.  His brother John went to Home Depot and made this shoulder pulley for him. The lung surgery is about 70% healed, The bigger issue is getting the shoulder working again.  He has made some good progress and hopes to be in tip-top shape by January.

Merritt has three siblings in Sacramento, John, Brenda, and Milt.  We have enjoyed spending time with them.   Milt had to go back to work before we took this photo of us "retired" folks.   We have enjoyed a couple of "game nights" with Milt and his wife Laura.  It's nice to be close to family (something we have never experienced outside of a 2-week vacation). 

Mark and Loretta Eliason came down from Redding and spent a couple days with us.  We used to see them regularly (once a year) when we were driving from Portland to Sacramento.  It was great to catch up with them.   While Mark was in town several of Merritt's high school friends came to Ted's place for Swedish Pancakes.  Merritt's mom used to make these for his friends when they came over.   It was great to visit with them and their spouses. 

We had a nice evening visiting with our friends, Pam and Richard Sopp. 

The Sacramento Temple is only 10 minutes from Ted's home.  Ted goes every week and enjoys having company. 

It is a Dutch tradition to give chocolate letters during the Christmas season.  Merritt found where he could buy them online but also found he could make them himself at half the cost.   Heather and her sister Shenna made a couple of attempts with poor results and gave up.   Merritt stayed up late that night and perfected the process.  This will now be his responsibility for all future Christmas'.  (Heather is relieved!) 

We drove to Salt Lake City to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with Madison and Evan's family.   Madison had told her girls that we were not going to arrive until late that evening so we were able to surprise them when they came home from school.  It was so fun to see them again. 

The granddaughters enjoy helping Merritt with his physical therapy. 

Heather is the craft and game Queen!  The girls all enjoy spending time with their Oma playing games and doing projects. 

We have had a lot of deliveries from Amazon.  This granddaughter found a good use for the boxes.  We have a very similar photo of Madison from when she was about this age. 

On Thanksgiving day we helped the Fitzpatrick's put up their Christmas tree.  The kids were very excited and happy to be decorating the tree and the adults, of course, enjoyed it as well. 

We had a nice 3-day snowstorm over Thanksgiving weekend.  We were watching Frosty the Snowman on TV which inspired the kids to want to build their own "Harry Potter" snowman in the backyard. 

Also on Thanksgiving weekend, we got together with the Mealey cousins who also have four girls (and a great son, not in the picture). 

While the kids had fun playing game the adults enjoyed putting together a puzzle which got finished just before we had to leave.   Of course, we ate more good food as well. 

On December 1st our oldest Granddaughter was baptized.   It was so nice to be able to join in on this special occasion.   Earlier that day in Testimony Meeting she bore a brief testimony about Jesus and the Book of Mormon.   Priceless! 

The girls can be goofy (actually they are often goofy and laughing)  Here they are giving each other piggyback rides around the house.   They are really fun girls to be around. 

Merritt has enjoyed reading the Chronicles of Narnia with the girls as a bedtime story.   We finish The Lion, Witch and the Wardrobe.  Six more books to go! 

We are looking forward to having the rest of our family join us for Christmas. 

We wish you all a great Christmas Season of Peace and Joy! 

Friday, November 8, 2019

October 2019 - Taking the scenic route home

After completing Merritt's medical treatment in Bad Nauheim we found a low priced transatlantic cruise that sailed out of a port near Rome.  This solved the issue of Merritt not being able to fly from Europe to the US for 90 days post-surgery. 

Saturday, Oct 6th, one month after our arrival, we left Bad Nauheim and traveled by train from Frankfurt to Milan where we changed trains and continued onto Rome.   Airbnb made it easy for us to arrange a home to stay in until the cruise departed on Oct 14th.

Frankfurt Train station with some kind of interesting organic art in the background.

During our trip to Rome, we had a family with their children across the aisle from us.   It reminded us of all the time we spent traveling with our own kids.  The two boys did pretty well on the seven-hour train ride.  The scenery wasn't too bad either. 

Heather's number one priority was getting a haircut once we got to Rome. We walked by a salon our second day and they fit Heather in immediately, a good cut but about 3 times the cost as in Serbia.   We are going to miss those $4 Serbian haircuts (along with so many other things)

It was nice having nine days in Rome.   Merritt was still recovering so about every other day we just stayed in the apartment and read and played cards.  We had been to Rome about 25 years ago but of course, we did have to go out and see some of the sights, the highlight being a trip to Tivoli to see the gardens there. 

If you ever find yourself in Rome and are getting a bit tired of all the tourists and concrete we highly recommend taking the one hour train ride to Tivoli. 

 It was nice to see all the manicured greenery and fountains.



Back in Rome, some of our favorite places included the Spanish Steps

Piazza del Popolo next to the Borghese gardens

Trajan's column still standing since it's construction in 113 AD. 

Piazza Navona


 The colosseum.


Trevi Fountain

Going to church at an Italian speaking ward.

The real highlight of our week in Rome was being able to meet up with Jon and Becky Rands who were also completing their mission (they served in Slovenia).   We frequently worked together on YSA and Youth activities in the mission.   One of the greatest blessings of serving a mission are friendships formed with the members and other missionaries. It was pretty neat that our Rome plans overlapped by one day and we were able to get together for dinner and visiting.

On Monday, October 14th we took a train to Civitavecchia and boarded the Norwegian Pearl along with 3500 other passengers to begin our trip back to the US.

Because of Merritt's recovery and also just because we like to read our favorite spot on the ship was the library which had a good selection of books and it was open 24 hours a day. 

Our first stop was Pisa where we got off and took a train to Lucca.  Sorry no photos of us holding up the leaning tower of Pisa.  Lucca is famous for its towers which families built in a "keeping up with the Jones's" fashion.  At one point there were hundreds of them but now only a handful remain.

Our next stop was Cannes, France from where we took a bus to Nice.  It turns out we should have taken the train because the bus took twice as long as expected (over 2 hours). 

We spent several weeks in Nice five years ago and found the city just as charming as we remembered.  They have made several improvements since then that makes it even better.  One of the best things about Nice is the Promenade that runs for several kilometers along the coast.

We enjoyed our day in Nice and someday we would like to come back for a much longer visit.   We left in time to catch the last train back to the boat from the historic train station (30 minutes). 

The next day we stopped in Barcelona.  We arrived the day before major demonstrations supporting the separation of Catalonia from Spain.  Hopefully, they can get things worked out peacefully.   We focused on seeing more of Gaudi's works, stopping first at the Segrada de Familia, which is incredible inside and out.   We were here six years ago and it was interesting to see the progress they have made.  We definitely will come back again when it is finished.

Gaudi was a pure genius.   Here are some other buildings he designed that we visited.  It would be fun to design and build something like this (on a much smaller scale of course!)


We spent a day at sea so we could recuperate in the ship's library and then our next stop was Cadiz, Spain.  We tried to get a train to Seville but it was sold out (should have planned ahead a little better).  No matter, we had a relaxing day wandering the pleasant streets and parks of this small town.   We stumbled upon a tennis club with some nice courts so perhaps we will come back and spend some more time here someday.


Our next stop was Lisbon.  It was dramatic to sail into the bay where Lisbon is situated.  It reminded us quite a bit of San Fransico with the city being built on the hills above the water.

We spent time in Lisbon before, so Heather stayed on the boat and Merritt just got on a bus and asked the bus driver for suggestions where to get off along the route.  It turns out the route went out to the Expo part of town which is full of new developments.   It includes a large shopping mall, an aquarium, a gondola ride across the water and several parks.  While just doing some exploring Merritt came around a corner and stumbled upon the new LDS Lisbon Temple.  This temple had just been dedicated a few months ago and it was very neat to be able to see it.  We will have to come back again someday when we can attend the Lisbon temple.

After Lisbon, we had two more rest days while we traveled to the Azores.  The Azores are part of Portugal and are located in the Mid-Atlantic, think Hawaii minus the beaches as everything is all black lava rock along the shoreline.  It was a very beautiful day on the island of San Miguel.

Many of the building are done in a black and white motif.

We also enjoyed seeing all the elaborate black and white designs in the cobblestones throughout the city. 

Here is a photo of us together as we left San Miguel behind. 

We rested up and played some cards during the next few days at sea.

Our next stop was Bermuda.  It is part of the United Kingdom so everything was left-hand drive and they even had some of the red phone booths you typically only see in England.    Bermuda is heavily populated with both homes and boats.  It was nice to be in a location where all the signage was in English.

The next stop was Port Canaveral (this was a substitute port for the Bahamas which still haven't recovered from the recent hurricane).  Some people went on excursions to Disney World and some to the Kennedy space center but we just rested up on the boat.   Also, this was the first port we had come to that wasn't serviced by any public transportation (welcome to the USofA where everyone has a car).

Our next and final stop was Miami.  We arrived just before 7 am while the city lights we still shining.   

A cruise does not normally appeal to us and we would never have taken this cruise except for it being an expeditious means for us to get home but we would have to say it was better than we expected.  The food was very good (we both ate too much) and we were able to see lots of amazing sites without any hassle of checking into and out of hotel rooms.  Maybe we will do this again sometime but not for a while. 

We arrived in Sacramento where we are enjoying spending some time doing jigsaw puzzles and hanging out with family and friends.

Getting Merritt's surgery done and then getting home resulted in being on the road and living out of suitcases for 54 days.  It's good to be home! 

We went to the Sacramento Temple with Heather's father.  We have a lot of memories from  Mormon Center (dedicated by Pres. Kimble in the 70's where he forecast that this would be a good location for a temple in the future). 


We are grateful that we were fortunate enough to be able to serve our mission in the Adriatic North Mission with wonderful people who will be close to our hearts forever.   

Next up is spending more time with our four granddaughters in Holladay, Utah during Thanksgiving